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From Separation to Displacement: The Problem of Women in Sefer Hasidim

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  15 October 2009

Judith R. Baskin
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State University of New York at Albany, Albany, N. Y.
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A gender analysis of some of the representations of women in Sefer Hasidim and related texts finds that the German-Jewish pietiests of the twelfth and thirteenth centuries express a profound ambivalence toward women. While Sefer Hasidim places great importance on happy marital relations, its authors also see potential adulteries at every turn. Moreover, in their mystical yearning to transcend the physical pleasures of the material world, they go beyond rabbinic norms in their displacement of women in favor of devotion to the divine. This essay suggests that situating this ambivalence, and the frequent objectification of women which results from it, within the larger context of medieval social history can expand and enhance our knowledge of Jewish social norms, family life, and spirituality in medieval Ashkenaz.

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An earlier version of this paper, “Images of Women in Sefer Hasidim,” was delivered at Mystik, Magie und Kabbala im Aschkenasischen Judentum, a conference held at Frankfurt am Main, December 1991, and was published with the conference proceedings in Mysticism and Magic in Judaism: An International Symposium Held in Frankfurt, 1991, ed. Grozinger, K. E. and Dan, J., Judaica, Studia 13 (Berlin, 1993).Google Scholar

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