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A Laughing Matter? Marital Discord and Gender Control in Seventeenth-Century England1

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  12 June 2009

Elizabeth Foyster
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For the vast majority of men and women in seventeenth-century England the act of marriage created an indissoluble union and represented a life long commitment. Legal divorce was a lengthy and costly procedure which discriminated against women, and informal separations or desertions were socially frowned upon and often economically disadvantageous. So marital discord had to be overcome before it deteriorated into a situation of marriage breakdown. Elaborate ways of restoring and maintaining marital harmony were established through use of the cucking stool and ‘charivari’. By these means, public attention was focused upon behaviour which caused discord: the scolding wife was punished and the husband who was a cuckold or had been beaten by his wife, humiliated. Meanwhile, conduct books proffered advice to couples on how to avoid such marital discontent and its consequences.

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Rural History , Volume 4 , Issue 1 , April 1993 , pp. 5 - 21
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Copyright © Cambridge University Press 1993

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