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1 - The seductive space

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  22 September 2009

Aaron Ben-Ze'ev
Affiliation:
University of Haifa, Israel
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Summary

The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet.

Andy Warhol

The appearance of computer-mediated communication has introduced a new type of discourse and consequently a new type of personal relationship has developed. There are various kinds of computermediated relationships that differ in some significant aspects: one-to-one or group communication formats, interrelating with real people or fantasy personas, interrelating with anonymous or identified people, and communicating in synchronous or asynchronous formats. Such types of communication can be text-based, voice-based, video-based, or a combination of any of these. My main concern is with those types of communication that facilitate romantic relationships. Foremost among such types are email, which is asynchronous text-based communication that can be one-to-one or one-to-many, and chat or instant messaging that allows for synchronous text-based communication, either one-to-one or many to-many. These types of communication take place between real people who, while not completely anonymous, may have not fully disclosed their identity: in most cases, you cannot see or hear the other person.

The interactive revolution in imagination

We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.

Tom Robbins

Cyberspace is a psychological and social domain. It is not tangible and some of its dimensions, such as distance, and location, are not measured by physical parameters, but by psychological content. This often imaginary reality is not limited to the private domain of a specific person; rather, it is shared by many people.

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Love Online
Emotions on the Internet
, pp. 1 - 25
Publisher: Cambridge University Press
Print publication year: 2004

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  • The seductive space
  • Aaron Ben-Ze'ev, University of Haifa, Israel
  • Book: Love Online
  • Online publication: 22 September 2009
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511489785.002
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  • The seductive space
  • Aaron Ben-Ze'ev, University of Haifa, Israel
  • Book: Love Online
  • Online publication: 22 September 2009
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511489785.002
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  • The seductive space
  • Aaron Ben-Ze'ev, University of Haifa, Israel
  • Book: Love Online
  • Online publication: 22 September 2009
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511489785.002
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