Meaningful conversations require skills we develop when making thoughtful decisions. More than a common-sense approach to living, the Decision-Maker Moves enable us to effectively discover and express what matters in ways that get things done. By expanding our scope to include the wellbeing of others, even if the lives of the other people are very unlike our own, we can level up from the personal to the social – from ourselves to family members, to people living in our communities, to our cities and provinces or states, and – in some cases, such as with Abhay – to our world.