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²⁰ See Appendix and Tables 1–3.

²¹ Interview 217, Family Life and Work Experience Collection, Oral History Archive, University of Essex. All the interviews cited hereafter are from this archive.

²² Interview 195.

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²⁵ Interview 428.

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²⁷ Interview 249.

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³⁰ Interview 241.

³¹ Interview 195.

³² Interview 217.

³³ Attitudes to stepparents were as follows: Stepfathers: four men and three women positive; one man and four women negative. Stepmothers', three men and three women positive; one man and five women negative. Five stepfathers but no stepmothers were ignored in the life-story.

³⁴ Interview 417.

³⁵ Interview 366.

³⁶ Interview 217.

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⁴¹ Interview 349.

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⁴³ Interview 249.

⁴⁴ Interview 428.

⁴⁵ Interview 226.

⁴⁶ Interview 417.

⁴⁷ Interview 50.

⁴⁸ Interview 275.

⁴⁹ Interview 103.

⁵⁰ Interview 275.

⁵¹ Interview 407.

⁵² Interview 66.

⁵³ Interview 227.

⁵⁴ Interview 187.

⁵⁵ Interview 364.

⁵⁶ Interview 195.

⁵⁷ Interview 187.

⁵⁸ Interview 217.

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⁶⁷ Interview 69.

⁶⁸ Interview 196.

⁶⁹ Interview 364.

⁷⁰ Interview 363.

⁷¹ Interview 92.

⁷² Interview 405.

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