New notions of tail and nontail dependence are used tocharacterize separately extremal and nonextremalinformation, including tail log-exceedances andevents, and tail-trimmed levels. We prove that nearepoch dependence (McLeish, 1975; Gallant and White,1988) andL0-approximability(Pötscher and Prucha, 1991) are equivalent for tailevents and tail-trimmed levels, ensuring a Gaussiancentral limit theory for important extreme value androbust statistics under general conditions. We applythe theory to characterize the extremal andnonextremal memory properties of possibly veryheavy-tailed GARCH processes and distributed lags.This in turn is used to verify Gaussian limits fortail index, tail dependence, and tail-trimmed sumsof these data, allowing for Gaussian asymptotics fora new tail-trimmed least squares estimator forheavy-tailed processes.