Communication and Relationship Maintenance

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7 - Communication and Relationship Maintenance

from Part III - Processes of Relationship Maintenance

Published online by Cambridge University Press: 02 December 2019

Laura Stafford

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Brian G. Ogolsky and

J. Kale Monk

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Brian G. Ogolsky: Affiliation:
University of Illinois, Urbana-Champaign
J. Kale Monk: Affiliation:
University of Missouri

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This chapter reviews scholarship on communication and relational maintenance and introduces a new conceptualization of relational maintenance: maintenance as growth. Communication plays a unique role in the maintenance of relationships, as it serves both as a maintenance mechanism and as the means through which other maintenance mechanisms are made manifest. In order to limit the scope, the focus is upon romantic relationships. A synopsis of the history of the study of communication and relational maintenance is offered by reviewing typologies, motivations, antecedents, and the complex connections among maintenance behaviors and relational features. The four most often invoked definitions of maintenance are reviewed, and a fifth new definition of maintenance is proposed in order to extend our conceptualizations of relational maintenance. This fifth, heretofore unarticulated (at least explicitly), is one wherein maintenance is seen as the process of keeping a relationship growing. Maintenance is defined as the state and process of growth or continuous positive change. How we communicate maintenance in accordance with definitions of relational maintenance is considered. Areas for further research are put forward, including attention to maintenance as a multiplex of behaviors as well as the valence, context, timing, and perceived intent of maintenance behaviors.

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relational maintenance maintenance strategies maintenance behaviors relational communication interpersonal communication romantic relationships

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Information: Relationship Maintenance
Theory, Process, and Context
, pp. 109 - 133

DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/9781108304320.007 [Opens in a new window]

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