Chinese Stellaria (Stellera chamaejasme L.) is a indicator plant of degraded grasslands. With its robust vitality, once it emerges in grassland ecosystems, it undergoes extensive growth and rapid expansion, leading to grassland degradation as an inevitable consequence. The establishment and invasion of S. chamaejasme disrupts the ecological balance of grasslands in Qilian Mountains. This study was conducted in a grassland on the eastern slope of the Qilian Mountains, employing point pattern analysis to investigate the spatial distribution patterns of S. chamaejasme and the relationships among different age classes. The population was categorized into three growth stages: young, sub-adult, and mature plants. The results revealed that the spatial distribution of this population is primarily dominated by subadult plants, accounting for up to 75.48% of the total, with an overall transition trend from aggregated to random distribution. No significant spatial correlations were observed among different age groups (young, subadult plants, and mature plants), indicating that mature plants do not exert significant inhibitory effects on the growth of young individuals. In high-density areas, the population exhibited a radiating distribution outward from mature plants as the center, with high-density cores predominantly concentrated within 0-5 m. Significant density variations were observed between regions, with the highest total density estimated at approximately 9.57 plants/m2 and the lowest at 2.68 plants/m². The invasion mechanism of S. chamaejasme is closely associated with the spatial independence of its age groups and a distribution pattern dominated by subadult plants. During the initial invasion phase, S. chamaejasme spreads predominantly around mature plants. After securing sufficient growing space (0–1 m), it further competes for territory through shifts in distribution patterns—transitioning from aggregated to random distribution. Additionally, significant differences in distribution density and expansion patterns across regions provide critical theoretical foundations for targeted ecological management strategies.