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    Arriaga, Ximena B. Kumashiro, Madoka Simpson, Jeffry A. and Overall, Nickola C. 2018. Revising Working Models Across Time: Relationship Situations That Enhance Attachment Security. Personality and Social Psychology Review, Vol. 22, Issue. 1, p. 71.

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