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The self in its social context: Why resilience needs company

  • Hans IJzerman (a1) and Siegwart Lindenberg (a2)

In their target article, Kalisch et al. explicate an appraisal-based model to explain how people bounce back from stress. We posit that for their model, it is crucial to understand the begin-state φ (the “self”) – a state that is shaped by early social thermoregulation and through the social network.

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