Post-red and post-asymptotic giant stars in binary systems with main sequence companions, have periods in the range ∼50-2000 days, eccentricities as high as 0.6 and are surrounded by a circumbinary disc. Their orbital separations are small enough that the system must have gone through Roche lobe overflow when the primary was a full blown giant; Roche lobe overflow between a giant and a more compact companion tend to lead to a common envelope inspiral, leaving a circular orbit with periods much shorter than observed in these systems. In this first work in a series we explore to what extent a high mass ratio, q ≡ M2/M1, can lead to wider orbital separations, by carrying out a series of 3D, hydrodynamical CE binary interaction simulations with the smoothed particle hydrodynamics code PHANTOM. The giant is a 0.88 M⊙, 90 R⊙, red giant branch star and the companions have a range of masses such that q = 0.68 − 1.5. While larger q values result in wider post-CE separations, the upper limit we predict is only ∼ 50 R⊙, smaller than the observed range. The pre-CE mass transfer phase is longer for larger companion masses and around q ≳ 1 the nature of the CE inspiral changes significantly, showing greater stability, as predicted by analytical theory. However, this phase is not converged with respect to simulation resolution and it is expected that a higher resolution would lead to even more stability and a longer pre-inspiral phase. Despite more material flowing through the L2 and L3 Lagrange points for higher q values, with the potential for the formation of a circumbinary disc structure in this way, we conclude that, for our parameters, circumbinary discs are more likely to form from fall back of leftover bound envelope. Fall-back times are short (a few × 100 years) and fall-back discs extend between 0.5 and 5 au (outside the binary orbit), at which point the discs are likely to spread farther on short timescales via viscous torques. These discs have characteristics in line with those observed.