More than just shrinking ice, glaciers are more-than-human entities that have relationships with people, affecting and influencing their behaviour. This paper focuses on the relationship between glaciers and alpinists, a community that experiences their retreat in an intimate and embodied way. Thirty semi-structured interviews with alpinists in the European Alps reveal four relational dynamics shaped by disappearing glaciers: awareness leading to technical adaptation, avoidance of increasingly unstable areas, responses to loss, and the enduring pleasure of the encounter. These dynamics shed light on the mourning processes experienced by alpinists in response to the disappearance of the glaciated environment, which can be understood as a form of ecological grief. This mourning has an ambivalent potential: it can lead to a never-ending state of melancholia or, when combined with residual pleasure and attachment, it can foster leadership in climate action and support the development of new relationships with the deglaciated mountain landscape.