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Chapter 8: Navigating the Challenges of Interdependence

Chapter 8: Navigating the Challenges of Interdependence

pp. 273-307

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, Loyola University Maryland, , Syracuse University, New York
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This chapter describes how romantic partners navigate the disagreements that necessarily result from their interdependence and how partners recover when they intentionally or unintentionally hurt each other. Specifically, it reviews the ways in which goals and desires conflict to produce disagreements and how disagreements provide a diagnostic situation in which people make inferences about their partner’s thoughts, feelings, and commitment. Next, it describes typical conflict topics, how conflicts tend to be experienced, and typical conflict prevalence over the course of a romantic relationship. Next, the chapter covers how people manage interpersonal conflicts and highlights specific conflict behaviors that are typically destructive (e.g., hostility, withdrawal) and specific conflict behaviors that are typically constructive (e.g., intimacy, problem solving), as well as how the adaptiveness of conflict behaviors can change depending on the situation. Finally, this chapter reviews how partners can recover from destructive conflicts and other relationship transgressions by accommodating rather than retaliating, sacrificing, and forgiving.

Keywords

  • disagreement
  • partner transgressions
  • diagnostic situations
  • conflict behavior
  • hostility
  • demand-withdrawal
  • problem solving
  • forgiveness
  • accommodation
  • sacrifice

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